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I am broken.
So are you. And everyone we know. Which means we need to be patient with each other. We are all broken in different ways, and we don't trust the way other people are broken.
We could understand if everyone were broken in the same way. But because we are all broken differently, it is even more important to work at understanding.
Part of loving others is to give ourselves space so our brokenness doesn’t harm others.
Part of loving others is to take care around people who might be especially vulnerable to our brokenness.
It is not enough to see how my brokenness affects myself, but also others. I must be aware of those who will be hurt by my brokenness, although I never meant to hurt them.