My friend, I want to apologize to you for not responding to your paper right away. It is true I have
been busy and my rational mind somewhat distracted from big issues to everyday
issues. But I have spent a lot of time
thinking about this issue and have considered it seriously since you sent me
the letter on Feb 6. Now that MCUSA is
seriously debating the issue, I guess it’s time for me to give my firm opinion,
even if still in the formation stage. So
I will do my best. I wish I was as
straightforward and brief as you, but as you know, my thoughts tend to wander
and get a bit large at times.
1.
First, I need to say that I am in agreement with
your exegesis of the text. Paul, in
interpreting Jesus, firmly stated that the act of same sex intercourse is a
sin, and characterizing one’s life this way keeps one from the kingdom of
God. As Paul is bringing in his idea of
porneia from Leviticus 18, this includes same sex marriage. As such, the church should not be involved in
same sex marriages, either creating them or participating in them.
2.
However, this is not the point of view of
everyone. What I stated above is what can be
understood from standard exegetical practices. But there is another way of
looking at the texts. If the idea of fornication (porneia) is not based on Leviticus 18, but is based rather on contemporary
cultural standards, then we might see the texts on homosexuality differently. Because Romans 1 has a unique place in its
book (which I will discuss in a bit), I’d like to look at the other Pauline
passage on homosexuality—I Corinthians 6:9-10.
Paul is listing the characters (habitual, unrepented actions) that cause
one to not enter God’s kingdom. In that
list, Paul gives two terms: malakoi and arsenosoitai, a pair of terms that are
used to speak of those who participate in same sex intercourse. Malakoi is a curious term, literally “the
soft”, which is not used for homosexuals anywhere else in the NT or the LXX,
but possibly connected to wealth in Matt 11:8/Lk 7:25 and perhaps Prov
25:15. The second term is used also only
in I Timothy 1:10 in another, shorter, vice list. Both terms are understood as referring to
homosexual acts. If so, it could be that
the pair of terms refers to the common practice of sexual immorality in
patronage, in which a homosexual bond occurs between an older patron and a
younger ward. Paul would be implying
that both the aggressor (patron) and the one who agrees to such a sexual
arrangement (ward) would be denied entrance into God’s kingdom. Another passage that has to be looked at is
Jude 1:7, which condemns Sodom for their “fornication” and “going after strange
flesh.” This is understood to be about
pursuing homosexual intercourse. It
might also, however, be understood to mean sexual acts outside of a committed
relationship. These passages are interpreted
in such a way by some NT scholars, and so not speaking of a committed relationship within marriage. In other words, they would say that the NT does not declare same sex marriage a sin.
3.
Because of this, I think that the argument in
MCUSA is not between those who study the NT and those who don’t but between two
different interpretations of the NT.
While the purpose of seeking an alternative understanding of these NT
passages could be suspect (seeking an excuse to accept those currently outcast
due to sinful practice), the result points out a weakness in NT scholarship
about homosexuality. Not that there is
anything wrong with what was previously stated, but that it could be interpreted differently. I am sure that after all your study and hard
work you don’t see these two points of view as being equal at all. And I certainly agree that the connection
between Leviticus 18 and these passages is stronger than the cultural
arguments. However, this becomes an
argument about scholarship, not about the question of who is in and who is out
of the church, which is what the discussion should be about.
4.
Ultimately, looking at both sides, I see this
whole argument to be a question of epistemology. How do we know one
interpretation of scripture is true and another is not? I don’t mean how do we study or interpret,
but how do we realistically accept one point of view and reject another. I know that you, W-, study hard and
accept truth through hard-won principles and hours of study. Most people, however, do not. They leave the hours of study and analysis to
people like you who do the work. And the
“scientists” of the church sometimes disagree.
When they do, the majority of people accept the point of view that makes
sense best to them. Not because they don’t
care about the truth, but because they do.
Most people don’t have the skills to do in-depth exegesis. And they certainly don’t have the wherewithal
to make a fully informed choice between two different schools of
interpretation. They “go with their gut” based on instinct and relationship and
what limited information they have. Will
God condemn a person because he or she disagrees with Him on a point of view
that he doesn’t have enough information?
Does not God look at the heart and judge based on their mercy?
5.
Same sex marriages are a hot button issue both
in and out of the church and emotions are deeply involved. It is easy to characterize the side we
disagree with as the enemy, as people who are opposed to morality and God’s
true will in this broader cultural context.
In a counselling situation, when emotions are high and black-and-white
thinking is likely, a counsellor would suggest to put the decision on hold
until after a “cooling down” period.
Because rational, informed decisions cannot be made in such a
context. There was a less than informed
decision made about divorce and remarriage in the 50s and the 60s, but
conservative churches weren’t leaving, no one was making an uproar. I think the question should be revisited, but
the question is… should we really be making a demand of our churches and our
society to stand firm on one side or another in this age of partisanship and
wild accusations?
6.
What is MCUSA really doing? Are they being cowardly? Or are they waiting? What should a church do when there are
differing points of view, both of which is based on an interpretation of
Scripture? In a situation like this, the Orthodox church has a saying, “Let’s
wait a couple centuries and see how it pans out.” You say that thirty years is enough to make a
decision on such a hot-button issue, but as a historian, you should know that
this isn’t true. Neither Athanasius nor
Arius saw their hot button issue of the trinity resolved by the end of their lives, let alone
by the end of their century. The issue
of spiritual gifts seem to be winding down after a century of debate, but there
are still naysayers. In all probability
the issue of same sex marriages will still be debated in fifty years’ time.
7.
The probability is strong that MCUSA will this week allow
individual conferences to make their own choices about same sex marriages, and
many conferences will pass that decision down to congregations. And many churches will find this decision
unacceptable and leave the Church, like what you are talking about. However, I
suggest that you not do that.
8.
In the NT, there are clear defining principles
as to what is true teaching and false teaching.
But it isn’t so clear what to do with the false teachers. There are many passages that tell the
disciple not to listen to the false teacher, and a church is not to “welcome”
such a false teacher, and in Revelation it says that Jezebel would be judged
for her encouragement of immorality in the church. But we are never told to leave a church, nor
even to kick the false prophets out.
Rather, even in Revelation, we are told that Jesus would judge
himself. We are to hold to the truth,
teach the truth and speak out for the truth, but why separate ourselves from
others?
You say that I Corinthians 5 says to separate from the sexually immoral, but the debate is not whether to forgive or to accept the sexually immoral, but what is the definition of sexual immorality. This is not a discussion to run from just because it is being held. Romans 1 has a discussion about who is judged by God. The argument is made that Gentiles are sinners and deserve condemnation. But Paul is not making that argument in Romans 1:18 to the end of the chapter for himself. Rather that is the standard anti-Gentile argument about why Gentiles should not be allowed in the Church. Paul immediately responds to that argument, which includes a clear condemnation of homosexuality, "You have no excuse, everyone of you who passes judgement, for in that which you judge another you condemn yourself. For you who judge practice the same things." We allow sexual immorality in our churches in other ways, but not homosexuality? We allow people to hate and to gripe and to gossip and to argue, but we do not allow a point of clarification from people who want to love and accept? Is there something wrong with this?
9.
I am in disagreement with the 16th
Anabaptists in an area: I do not believe that it is possible to have a pure,
undefiled church. We can aim for it,
work for it and imagine it, but in the end the earthly Church is a number of
weak, semiscient, human organizations.
If all those who have the truth leave the Church to form another, then
they are leaving one human organization for another. They are no longer discussing, no longer
convincing, no longer evangelizing, no longer encouraging. They are leaving
that institution to be bound for hell, which seems like one of the worst kinds of
judging.
11.
Even so, recognizing how much this Church (both
as MCUSA and as MC and GC) has given you, is it time to leave because they are
allowing congregations make decisions on a debatable point of view? Even if you do not see it as debatable, can
you not remain and make your points? Personally,
I think that the prejudices of the church against the poor are more important issues
than the issue of homosexuality, but you have already put in the work, on the salary of
congregations of MCUSA. Why leave the
church when they have paid you to come to the conclusions you have come
to? Is it not your responsibility to remain
in the Church and to share what the Church has granted you—your time, your
studies, the opportunity to share? Now
is not the time to run, but to stand and to speak. The Church will not stop your speech, but
rather encourage it. Perhaps you will
not get a book in Menno Media, but there are many other venues. Take them.
Don’t fail the Church by leaving it, but change the Church from within.
EDIT: I've received some notice that perhaps my point isn't clear. I am not telling conservatives to change their viewpoint, nor am I telling liberals to change theirs. I am saying that the Church is about peace and love under Jesus, and that we haven't really listened to each other past the shouting. I am saying that none of us should leave the church, but keep paying attention to each other until we reach consensus on this point of view. Yes, people's lives and souls are at stake. So much so that we shouldn't walk away from them.